Attitude Determines Success.

With over twenty eight years of experience as a High Performance Business, Personal Coach and Qualified Counsellor and specialising in attitude that determines our success, I’ve witnessed that we all have a past that shapes us, damages us to certain degrees and puts fear into us on different levels. Our past can cause negative blocks to achieve and emotional pain today keeping us stuck in the past history, that’s only if we choose to stay there.

For some people past pain feels too unbearable to let go of and cannot cope so they sit with in it feeling controlled. It is so devastating for some people wanting to give up on everything, as life becomes too complicated and worthless.

Our past can also be perceived as our gift that makes us powerful beyond measure to grow, gain and learn. Teaching us to handle threatening situations, providing us with inner strength and the resilience to never give up. We can also gain a natural purity in our hearts, when we choose to let go of past pain. We can to come from good intentions in our hearts always hence creating our future success. For some people they become angered, bitter, fearful, jealous or sad and the attitude of “poor me” victim thinking with low or no accountability and positive forward thinking.

We can learn to come from a view point of non- judgement, compassion and empathy, because we felt it all being at the other end, so we understand it very well.

We develop an authentic pragmatic approach to life and use practical skills of long- term decisions and thinking. Whilst using our heightened gut feelings in our awareness to guide us and act with emotional intelligence. We learn to feel people’s intentions and know how to handle them elegantly, even the mean folk won’t know how to handle your straight up, respectful manner.

When we ditched being an mis- guided people pleaser and started to run our own race without comparison of others we are now on track to success. We become more in tune with self and heal from within. We are kind but never weak. We cannot be fooled easily and when someone tries we move out of the problem. 

We all have the ability to achieve our greatest success simply strive towards self actualisation of becoming at ease under pressure, we are solid with our integrity and grounded on the earth and we have deep internal happiness. We come home to our deepest peaceful state that every cell of our being has been nurtured and loved by self. We know we are perfectly beautiful for who we are with full acceptance, warts and all. This is when we feel at home in our whole being. Our past gave us lessons to learn by, so embrace every life experience as an opportunity to grow. Remind yourself your lessons become your gift of resilience. Learn to look from a different perspective with an attitude of gratitude. Let’s move elegantly beyond our past and let it go of anything that no longer serves us. It’s up to us to create our best life. 

Be You - Be Proud - Never Apologise for Being Your Authentic Self. Take Charge of Your Own Happiness and never be at the affect of others.

With Gratitude and Many Thanks I hope you Enjoy the Journey.

 Sheron Kenny